How to block individuals from sending you event invites on Facebook

Facebook falls frequently under the love/hate category. I am often amazed at how up to date people that I rarely interface with are when I see them in person due to our connection on Facebook. Love that. Some of the changes Facebook makes that affect our privacy drives me batty. Consider the recent feature where they changed your default Email address in your profile to @facebook.com. I feel connected to my family and friends regardless of where they are. Love that. See what I mean? Love…. hate… love…. hate Facebook.

Sanity Retention Department

One way we can all keep our sanity is to learn to do things that will protect our connections from driving us crazy and enable our friends to do likewise with any of our annoying Facebook habits. This often involves learning the privacy and account settings intimately. Something I’ve found recently is I have some serial event inviters who are otherwise good friends. There is a solution – you can selectively block people who are inviting you to events that you will never attend on a frequent basis. Here is the relief:

Navigate to the Privacy settings tab in the main menu, this is currently located at https://www.facebook.com/settings/?tab=privacy

Once you are there, scroll to the bottom of the page and find “Blocked People and Apps” and click Manage Blocking:

Select this

Now start typing the name of the serial inviter in the Block app Invites field, the autocomplete feature should kick in at some point. Anyone you have previously blocked will be listed under this field:

Type the name of the individual you wish to block

That’s it, the no longer offending friend can continue their Facebook friendship with you.

Image compliments of Skley, creative commons license.

Online Influence and Klout Panel [Podcast]

Online Influence and KloutThree great guests joined me  for a discussion about online influence about Klout:

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We covered a lot of questions, concerns and comments about privacy, influence and some of the recent situations with Klout.

This episode was live on Blog Talk Radio on 11/16/2011.

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Hyperalerts provides a hint of monetization strategy

This morning I saw something new in a Hyper Alert notice that provided a hint of a potential monetization strategy:

Hint of Hyper Alerts monetization strategy

The “We are hiring” portion of this alert is new, and could just as easily have been a paid advertisement for a product or service. This is both brilliant and appropriate as long as the ads don’t get more and more annoying and disruptive. If Hyper Interaktiv were to ask me my opinion about monetizing their service, here are some tips I would give them:

  1. Limit the ads to one very small ad at the very top and any additional ads after all of the alert content.
  2. Bend over backwards to protect the privacy of your users.
  3. Build a community around your application and enlist the support and ideas of that community to keep your product viable.

Limiting Ads

The big concern with advertisements would be cramming too many of them in-line and ruining the clean and easy to read alerts that your system produces. A very small advertisement at the top of the page would be easy enough to read or skip over and one larger ad after all alert content could be easily ignored or read/clicked if they had interest. If ads were included in the alert stream itself it would disrupt the value of the alert messages.

Privacy is of utmost importance

Your users are already feeling pinched on privacy, there is a vacuum for leadership in this area from the provider side. Too few companies take the high road with this, the temptation is evidently too great to opt people in to features that they are not fully aware of these days. One classic example here in the USA is how we have to mail, call or fill out a form to opt out of our information being shared by our creditors.

Community Involvement

Too few companies fail to really engage and enlist the support and ideas of their users, or they do it too late. There seems to be great opportunity in this area to build a much stronger community and product/service by really listening and engaging the audience that is ready to be heard and to participate. @Ginidietrich really nailed this issue in a recent comment on my post about Headup closing shop:

See…we’re all becoming social companies yet so few actually engage their users. Sad. – Gini Dietrich, Arment Dietrich

It is evident to me that this is an example where a more robust community could have taken up the charge to help the product become viable and be a commercial success.

Hyper Interaktiv Weigh’s In

I contacted Are Sundnes to find out the official company position on this feature. He indicated to me that right now quality of the service has been the top priority:

This is all in a very early stage, and our main focus now is to make the service as good as possible. -Are Sundnes, Hyper Interaktiv

When I queried him more directly about any plans to monetize the service he said only:

We don’t know where Hyper Alerts will take us, but as for now we’re not trying to monetize. -Are Sundnes, Hyper Interaktiv

So what do you think, do you like my advice?

Frustrated by the New Facebook Groups lack of opt-in? So am I. (Video)

Frustrated that anyone can add you to a Facebook Group without your permission? I am too and I’ve been following the issue and discussing it all over social media. I’ve come across some excellent resources and a way to mitigate the damage from being added to a group that might be less than flattering. Please also join the conversation, I would like to know your thoughts about this. You can leave a comment below, or on Youtube, Facebook, AmplifyTwitter or anywhere you see me.