How to block individuals from sending you event invites on Facebook

Facebook falls frequently under the love/hate category. I am often amazed at how up to date people that I rarely interface with are when I see them in person due to our connection on Facebook. Love that. Some of the changes Facebook makes that affect our privacy drives me batty. Consider the recent feature where they changed your default Email address in your profile to @facebook.com. I feel connected to my family and friends regardless of where they are. Love that. See what I mean? Love…. hate… love…. hate Facebook.

Sanity Retention Department

One way we can all keep our sanity is to learn to do things that will protect our connections from driving us crazy and enable our friends to do likewise with any of our annoying Facebook habits. This often involves learning the privacy and account settings intimately. Something I’ve found recently is I have some serial event inviters who are otherwise good friends. There is a solution – you can selectively block people who are inviting you to events that you will never attend on a frequent basis. Here is the relief:

Navigate to the Privacy settings tab in the main menu, this is currently located at https://www.facebook.com/settings/?tab=privacy

Once you are there, scroll to the bottom of the page and find “Blocked People and Apps” and click Manage Blocking:

Select this

Now start typing the name of the serial inviter in the Block app Invites field, the autocomplete feature should kick in at some point. Anyone you have previously blocked will be listed under this field:

Type the name of the individual you wish to block

That’s it, the no longer offending friend can continue their Facebook friendship with you.

Image compliments of Skley, creative commons license.

Exporting Facebook contacts to Google+. Facebook > Yahoo > G+ = #win

I was really disapointed when Facebook slammed the door shut on the friend exporter. I don’t even think the app was live for 24 hours before it was blocked. There is a way to bypass Facebooks desire to prevent this from occurring and here you go!

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Ok now here is the post I will burn my daily re-share on. This works, just did it. Welcome Facebook friends!Edit
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Here is how you can reliablyimport your Facebook friends into Google+1. Set up a Yahoo email address on http://mail.yahoo.com/
2. Click on the Contacts tab in Yahoo Mail and import the contacts from Facebook (see image)
3. Click on the Circles tab in Google+ and connectYahoo Mail (see image)While the import step 2. is manual, and you might want to periodically repeat it, the connection on step 3. o Yahoo Mail and Google+ is automatic, and persistent.

You will find the new contacts coming from Facebook automatically suggested by Google and you can drag them into the circle of your choice!

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7 Reasons you should still use Hyperalerts for Facebook Pages

Facebook recently added alerts and other changes to the Pages Interface in fact I have a video and post about it Facebook makes big changes to Pages Interface. This will be handy for people who don’t want to bother setting up a Hyperalert but there are 7 reasons you should still use Hyperalerts for Facebook Page notifications (5-7 were added on 2/13, read on to see why):

  1. You can use Hyper Alerts with ANY page (not just those you admin)
  2. You can sign up from ANY Email address (even one that forwards to multiple recipients)
  3. You can receive your own content (imagine if you have multiple admins)
  4. You can control WHEN you receive the updates.
  5. The quality of the hyper alert emails is excellent, complete with comments so you get the context.
  6. Hyper Alerts provides a dashboard to manage your alerts (and add more, etc)
  7. Hyper Alerts provides a record of all alerts in your Email folders (Mari Smith mentioned this in her post)

So don’t go and delete your Hyper Alerts just yet, it’s still the best tool for the job. If you want to learn more about Hyper Alerts check out my recent post Monitor any Facebook Page for Posts, Comments and Content.

Here is a sample of what the Facebook option looks like:

Facebook Email notification

Here are the superior Hyper Alerts options:

Hyper Alerts Add Alert User Interface

So what do you think, will you still use Hyperalerts for Facebook Pages or is Facebook alerts enough for you?

Update 2/11/2011: a Skype chat with Are Sundnes of Hyper Interaktive

I wrote the above post on 2/10/2011 and scheduled it for 2/14 before receiving an Email from Hyper Alerts detailing why they feel Hyper Alerts is still a better option. After receiving the Email I did a minor investigation to see if I could find someone at the company to chat with. I went to their site and it was in Norwegian, but I did recognize “Kontakt” so I clicked through and found an Email address. After sending an Email I got a Skype connection from Are (pronounced Ari) Sundnes. Within minutes (and being the wee hours of the morning his time) Are agreed to chat with me about Hyperalerts.

hyper interaktiv

More about Hyper Interaktiv developers of Hyper Alerts

Are Sundnes is a concept designer and programmer for Hyper Interaktiv. His company does creative advertising and development. They have 24 employees and as a small company many of them multi-task. Are is just one of those people, you see while being a digital artist by trade he actually programmed the Hyper Alerts system mostly by himself in response to needs they some of their clients had. It would be just our luck as I am very impressed with what they’ve done and I suspect there will be more to come in the future. Are would not give me any specifics but he did tell me they have lots of plans for Hyper Alerts and that they are in the process of prioritizing them. I also learned that the proliferation of their Hyper Alerts service has been completely organic. They have done zero marketing in fact due to the strong response they are working on a English language version of their website as you are reading this.

Facebook makes big changes to Pages Interface

Facebook has long neglected the Pages interface but that all changed today with some big changes. The best way to summarize the changes is that your Facebook page will function more like a user profile does. A couple of the extremely welcomed new features:

  1. The ability to comment on your page as yourself and not the page.
  2. Notifications via Email when users comment. (Cool but Hyper-Alerts is still better!)
  3. A cleaner more familiar user experience.
  4. A news feed for your home page.


This is the image that greeted me tonight when I logged into my page:
Facebook Pages Upgrade Dialogue
I will be providing a lot more data on this, but this ought to get you started with this new feature.

Monitor any Facebook Page for Posts, Comments and Content

As someone who manages and participates on a number of Facebook Pages, I have always wondered why Facebook does not give us the means to monitor user activity on pages such as posts and comments. Until recently I used a Google Reader entry that uses Feed My Inbox to deliver this content from other pages, but I’ve been stuck with manual visits for user comments and posts. Earlier this week I saw a wall post from my Friend Shonali that pointed to the Facebook Page Alert App SmackDown. The authors statement really sums up which app was worth even trying:

All I’ll say about Hyper Alerts is this: it is THE BEST THING EVER. It’s free and sends you real-time updates when people post AND comment on your posts. I’ve been managing Facebook Pages for two and a half years and I’m telling you right now, the past week since I’ve started using Hyper Alerts, have been a freakin’ cake walk. – Maggie at Mizzinformation.com

That was the kind of reference that I can appreciate, so I tried the app out. Since using it I have been anxiously awaiting the opportunity to share how much butt it kicks to anyone who does not want to constantly “spot check” pages for updated content, comments and posts. You all know who you are, you are the ones who are getting excited right now.

How to use Hyperalerts

Using Hyperalerts is extremely simple, you navigate to their site and setup an account. Once your account is created you are able to add alerts. I started by adding what was the most critical page for me to monitor, my businesses Facebook page. While creating the alert you are able to choose how frequently you will receive alerts and what type of content you will receive alerts about. The user interface is very simple, but I will of course be happy to provide a video tutorial for anyone who’d like a little extra help. For demonstration purposes I setup a second alert for my Rotary Club’s Facebook page, because unless I am posting something there I don’t want to visit it unless I know there is something to comment on (or delete if someone has spammed the wall, though this is becoming less common). My alerts are now setup, this is what the page looks like where I can edit them or add more:

hyperalerts edit screen

Now that the alerts are in place I receive notices when the criteria I have setup are met. This saves me from those periodic “spot checks” that I was doing previously. Now that it is setup there is nothing else required. Here is an example of an alert:

Hyperalerts Email Notice

Fresh from the idea farm

Since this program uses Email and you can monitor essentially any Facebook page, it could easily be used in to achieve some heavy lifting. In conjunction with an Email list you could distribute content notices to a number of users. For example, with a club you might be a part of you could with a little tinkering allow the entire club to receive notices when a particular page had been updated. Or you could even have alerts from your businesses (or a customers, competitors?) page go to a team of people who are at the ready to respond. You could also feed the notices into a system that creates tickets for a team to assign and respond. These are little hacks that might make this already powerful and useful application even more so. Do you have any other suggestions?

Update: 2/5/2011 – Hyper Alerts just got easier!

I was pleased when I logged in to Hyper Alerts today to notice a new button “Add alert from your Facebook user” this makes adding alerts so much easier. Nice to see great changes so soon!

Add alert from Facebook user

Update: 2/11/2012 – Facebook Pages now do alerts but they stink

Facebook included an alerting function with their big changes to Pages but it is not very user friendly. I still strongly recommend Hyper Alerts.

Facebook Tips – Tagging best practices and etiquette (Video)

I recorded this video to show people how to use the relatively simple tagging function on Facebook. I also explain more in depth in the video some of the etiquette involved with tagging people and pages. This is a great introduction to the feature if you are unsure how to use it or are looking for a starting point on etiquette.

What would you like to see?

Do you have any Facebook related topics that you’d like to see a video of? Please let me know and I will try to include it in this series.

Video Screenshot

Mentioned in this video/post @Lifehacker and @Shonali

How to dress up your Facebook Profile with the Profile Maker App

Unfortunately this application is no longer available on Facebook. Feel free to check out other Facebook related posts on my blog.

This is a instructional video to show you how to use the Facebook App Profile Maker to dress up your Facebook profile. Profile Maker is a nice conversation starter and a fun app to play with. There are some general suggestions about how to edit the image in advance to get the most benefit as well as a walk through of the process included in this short video.

Episode Summary David Kaa aka @TheManwife on Blogtalkradio (Podcast)

I started following some guy on Twitter earlier this year who called himself “TheManwife”. He seemed to be a pretty funny guy and I wanted to learn more about his story and thought it might interest others as well. I invited him to be interviewed on my Podcast on Blogtalkradio and he agreed. What ensued was a very diverse conversation with a normal guy from Boston, living in New Mexico making the best of a employment challenged situation. Some of the interesting things that came out of the discussion:

  • It’s not cool to drive a mini-van.
  • When you’re the man wife people respond when you ask questions like “why am I so cool?”.
  • His followers provide better jokes than he does.
  • He made “periwinkle” trend for 5 minutes on Twitter.
  • He watches Lifetime Television for Women (for the “crappy” Titles).
  • Reads Quantum Physics Books.
  • German’s love aliens.
  • He’s the man wife because Mr Mom was already taken.
  • They have Road Runners at the zoo in New Mexico.
  • Gary Vaynerchuck is going to do an episode about Recession Wines next week for David

Asking @garyvee for Recession Wine Tipsand Gary is a good sport:

@garyvee is game for some recession wine tips

Listen to the episode while you read on:

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David Kaa Allstar Quotes :

When you’re not working pants are just like the days of the week, they’re not necessary.

I’m actually more of a Lifetime Television type of Guy.

Exclusive! David’s book:

David is working on a book based on Twitter, that will be a completely social media driven book. It is expected to be released in 2011.

Where to find David

David Kaa @themanwife or http://themanwifechronicles.com

Check out his question of the day #manwife

The Manwife’s Twitter Recommendations

I like to ask my guests who some of the “lesser known” people that we are probably not already following that we should check out. Here are the man wifes suggestions. (By the way I keep a complete list on Twitter of “Recommended by Friends” Tweeple)

Melissa M @lisacandrive
“Lady J” @blondication
SuperMunk @supermunk

If you’re listed here and have a blog you’d like me to link to, please leave it in the comments below.

Listeners, what was the funniest thing you heard during the interview?

Enter my Facebook #Facepalm contest $50 to the winner!

Update 1:21PM – Ok, I seriously must be nuts, I’ve decided to offer a $50 reward to the winner of this contest. The best Facepalm image gets $50, no joke (aside from the silly overall nature of this post of course!).

You heard it right folks, Facebook is down and instead of having a cool Fail Whale like Twitter or Fail Owl like Hootsuite they have simply this:

Boring Facebook Fail

Boring Facebook Fail Where is the #Facepalm

So what I am proposing is a contest, the best #Facepalm will be submitted to Mark Zuckerberg himself. What do you say, people? Surely you can do better than this:

Lame Facepalm

My lame Facepalm, you can do better.

So send me yours to facepalm@customer.ms and I will post all SFW versions you send and take a vote!

Interview Sean Kennedy Good News in Oakland (Podcast)

Tonight I interviewed Sean Kennedy and Stephanie Geter on Blogtalkradio. It was inspiring to hear about all the positive things that are going on every day in Oakland, CA. Sean is the Executive Producer for Good News in Oakland. He is also highly recognized in the community in his role as Co-Chair of the City of Oakland Cultural Affairs Commission and for his innovative internet based TV network, “Good News In Oakland.”

You can check out Good News on Youtube or visit their Facebook page.

Listen to Joe Hackman on Blog Talk Radio

“The chips can be stacked against you but that doesn’t mean you can’t make it.” – Sean Kennedy