What can we do better?

Be your BestI watched a really cheesy movie last night called “Twelve“. It had popped up in the new movies section and clicked play instead of more information on accident and decided to roll with it. Twelve is what you might call a trash movie, lots of young actors and actresses, drug use, and violence. There was one gem in the movie (for me anyway) the main character imagines his deceased mother telling him (paraphrasing):

Be the best you can at everything you do.

I really like that message for a lot of reasons, not the least of which being that it’s easy to not live up to your potential. That message stuck with me and this morning as I walked into each room I thought to myself:

What can I do better?

and I made a commitment to do everything I do this week “better”.

Imagine the impact if we all took the time, the extra few seconds to consider “how can I do this better”. This week I’m making a commitment to be the best I can at everything I do, will you join me in this exercise?

Commit to Excellence

Is there any reason you can think of to NOT make the best of every day of your life? Each conversation you have with family, friends or your spouse, work and even parenting. Today I challenged myself with that very question and I could not think of anything that stuck. I came up with excuses but I could not come up with reasons. It sounds so cliché – “Live life to the fullest” or “Carpe Diem” but you know what, those are some of the wisest words man has ever uttered.

Take an honest assessment on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 meaning horrible and 10 meaning completely dominant – how powerful would you rate your commitment to everything you do in a given day? I suspect if most people are honest with themselves it comes in well under 5, it would for me and I am at what I feel a very high level of productivity/attitude for my lifetime. Now imagine how effective you would be if you increased your commitment to everything you do in a given day 10% or 1 point on that scale. Think about your relationships with others, your children, your co-workers, your boss, or even your clients. How much of an impact would it have in those relationships if you cared more today than you did yesterday. I would be willing to theorize that for every 10% you increase that scale you would feel a very big improvement in the quality of your life, your health and the lives of people you interact with.

Today is a day that we give thanks for the bountiful harvest in our lives, much as the pilgrims and Native Americans did during a time of peace and prosperity that inspired this Thanksgiving Day ritual. For me I have an additional thing to be thankful for, awareness that I can be happier, more productive and successful in every aspect of my life by making a series of decisions to commit to excellence. Also the pride I have that these decisions will bring happiness, joy and success to the people that I care about and to people I’ve never met.